How to Make Friends While Traveling Solo: Tips from a Seasoned Globetrotter

Traveling solo can be an incredibly liberating experience, but it can also feel a bit lonely at times. Making friends on the road is not just about having someone to share a meal with; it’s about creating memories, gaining new perspectives, and maybe even finding lifelong connections. As someone who’s been there, done that, I can tell you it’s not as hard as it seems. So, let’s dive into some practical tips on how to make friends while traveling solo.

A few years back, I found myself in Istanbul, a city that never sleeps, much like my former home in the Bay Area. I was alone, eager to explore, but also craving some human connection. Fast forward to today, and I’ve got a circle of friends from all over the world, some who I met right here in Istanbul. The key? A mix of openness, initiative, and a bit of luck. That’s what I want to share with you today.

By the end of this article, you’ll have a solid roadmap on how to meet people, form genuine connections, and make the most out of your solo adventures. Let’s get started!

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Stay in Social Accommodations

Your choice of accommodation can make a world of difference. Hostels are a goldmine for meeting fellow travelers. They’re communal, affordable, and often host social events. Websites like Hostelworld even have ratings for the ‘best atmosphere,’ making it easy to pick a lively spot. But maybe I should clarify, this doesn’t mean you should avoid hotels or Airbnbs. Some hotels have bustling lobbies or bars, and Airbnb experiences can be a great way to meet people.

Join Group Tours and Activities

Even if you’re not a big fan of tours, consider joining one for the social aspect. Companies like Intrepid Travel or Contiki offer group tours for all ages. Is this the best approach? Let’s consider the pros and cons. On one hand, you’ll be thrust into a group of fellow travelers, but on the other, it might feel a bit forced. Ultimately, it’s about what feels right for you.

Alternatively, look for local activities that interest you. A cooking class, a wine tasting tour, or even a language lesson can be a great way to meet people with similar interests. I’m torn between recommending big groups or smaller ones, but ultimately, smaller groups might offer more chances for meaningful interactions.

Use Apps and Online Communities

Technology can be a lifesaver when traveling solo. Apps like Meetup, Couchsurfing, or Bumble BFF are designed to connect people. Meetup has groups for every interest under the sun, Couchsurfing has hangouts and events, and Bumble BFF is specifically for making friends. Maybe I should clarify, these aren’t dating apps (well, Bumble is too, but the BFF section is different). They’re about community building.

Social media can also be a tool. Facebook groups for travelers, Twitter chats, or even Instagram can lead to real-life meetups. Heck, I’ve met a few folks from a Facebook group dedicated to Istanbul expats!

Learn the Local Language

This might seem daunting, but even a basic grasp of the local language can open doors. It shows respect and willingness to engage with the culture. Plus, language barriers can lead to some hilarious (and memorable) moments. I still laugh about the time I tried to order coffee in Turkish and ended up with a plate of meatballs.

Volunteer

Volunteering is a rewarding way to connect with both locals and fellow travelers. It could be helping out at a hostel, working on a farm (WWOOFing), or contributing to a community project. It’s a win-win you get to give back while also forming deep connections.

Be Approachable

This might sound obvious, but being approachable goes a long way. Smile, make eye contact, and don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation. Sitting in a caf? Ask the person next to you what they’re reading. In a museum? Comment on a nearby artwork. Sometimes, all it takes is a simple ‘hello.’

Follow Up

So, you’ve met someone interesting. Now what? Follow up! Send them a friend request, message them, or invite them for coffee. Nurture that connection. Remember, everyone’s traveling, so you might not have much time together. Make the most of it.

Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

This is probably the most important tip. Traveling solo is all about pushing boundaries. Say yes to invitations, try new things, go where the locals go. It’s okay to feel nervous, but don’t let fear hold you back.

Be Patient

Making friends takes time. Don’t rush it. Allow yourself to ease into new surroundings, new cultures, new experiences. Embrace the journey, both the highs and the lows. And remember, it’s okay to have off days. Traveling solo doesn’t mean you have to be ‘on’ all the time.

Trust Your Instincts

While it’s important to be open, it’s also crucial to trust your instincts. If something or someone feels off, it’s okay to step back. Your safety and comfort should always be a priority.

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Making friends while traveling solo is a journey in itself. It’s about stepping out of your comfort zone, embracing new experiences, and being open to connections. So, here’s my challenge to you: Next time you’re on the road, initiate a conversation, join a group activity, or simply smile at a stranger. You never know where it might lead.

And if you ever find yourself in Istanbul, maybe we can connect. Who knows, we might just become friends. After all, isn’t that what travel is all about? The unexpected, the serendipitous, the human connections.

FAQ

Q: Is it safe to meet people while traveling alone?
A: Generally, yes. But always trust your instincts. Meet in public places, let someone know where you’re going, and always prioritize your safety.

Q: What if I’m an introvert? Is this still possible?
A: Absolutely! Being an introvert doesn’t mean you can’t make friends. Take it slow, choose smaller groups, and don’t feel pressured to be ‘on’ all the time.

Q: How do I maintain these friendships after I return home?
A: Social media is a great tool for this. Regular check-ins, sharing memories, and even planning future trips together can help maintain these friendships.

Q: What if I’m not staying in hostels? Can I still meet people?
A: Of course! There are plenty of other ways to meet people. Join tours, use apps, or simply strike up conversations in cafs or museums.

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